HOW TO GET TO WHAT YOU WANT

As you go through life you experience contrast. Contrast is of tremendous value as it helps you define your personal preferences.

When you know what you don’t want, you also more clearly know what it is that you want.

You expanded mentally, now you have a mental concept of how an improved version would look like.

In order to create satisfaction, you will need to start closing the gap between where you stand and that improved version.

You do so by keeping your eyes on that improved version, your preferred version, and take actions to move in that direction. Trying different things to see what works for you. Allowing yourself to fail forward. Learning by doing.

But most people continue to look at the contrast, at that which is not pleasing to them. Thinking it’s the contrast that needs to change.

What you focus on will grow and if you are focusing on the contrast, you will create more of it.

What is, is the enemy of more.

Learn to ignore what is and focus your full attention to what it is that you want to create.

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