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FIND THE FEELING FIRST
FIND THE FEELING FIRST
Do you think that you need to get the result to feel in a certain way?
I need the money to feel rich.
I need the partner to feel loved.
I need the promotion to feel accomplished.
There are 2 issues with the statements above.
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CONNECTING WITH SELF
CONNECTING WITH SELF
I used to think life was best lived when focused on serving others. I thought a happy relationship was created by doing everything you possibly could for the other person.
So I twisted and tweaked myself in order to please my partner.
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FEELING UNWORTHY? - HERE IS WHY
The core of your unworthiness feeling comes from the flawed premise that it’s your responsibility to make someone else happy.
I used to think it was my responsibility to make my partner happy. Leading me on a path of twisting and tweaking MY own behaviour so that HE could be HAPPY.
Taking me further and further away from living life the way that made ME happy.
Result: WE both ended up UNHAPPY.
We get it all wrong.
We worry more about how OTHER people feel than about how WE feel.