EMOTIONAL BANK ACCOUNT

Like you have red and black numbers linked to deposits and withdrawals on your bank account, you have a similar system for your relationships called your emotional bank account.

Every relationship in your life is either in black or red depending on the level of investment done up until this point. This includes the relationship with yourself.

Withdrawals happen automatically while deposits require an active investment.

The more you invest, the more resilience that relationship becomes to future withdrawals. This does not mean that a challenging situation will go unnoticed but rather that they won't be threatening to the relationship’s continuation.

The goal is to build up a strong buffer by making regular deposits that allows the relationship to stand strong when difficult situations occur. Because they will as they are a natural part of the human experience.

Remember, even if a relationship is in red there are always things you can do to make positive deposits which over time will bring it back to black.

Which relationship is the one that requires your attention and investment today?

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