Your THOUGHTS generate your FEELINGS which drive your ACTIONS which create your RESULT. 

So if you don’t like the RESULT you produce, you first need to understand what THOUGHTS that creates it. 

It’s called the Model of life: 

  • Circumstance - always neutral

  • Thought - gives our circumstances a positive or negative meaning

  • Feeling - generated by our thoughts about our circumstance

  • Actions - driven by our emotions

  • Results - created from our actions or non actions

Disempowering self talk: 

  • Circumstance - 8h work day, 8 tasks due today

  • Thought - I will never be able to finish them in time

  • Feeling - Overwhelmed

  • Actions - Ruminate in the thought of not having enough time, distracting myself with small tasks that don’t move the dail, attending notifications instead of doing concentrated work

  • Results - Proving to yourself that you don’t have time to finish the tasks in time

Empowering self talk:

  • Circumstance - 8h work day, 8 tasks due today

  • Thought - I will get it done one thing at the time

  • Feeling - Determine

  • Actions - Start executing the tasks one by one, staying focused to what’s need to get done, not letting myself be distracted

  • Results - I get the tasks done in time

Can you see how it’s not what’s going on, your circumstance, that is creating your result in life but it’s your THINKING around the circumstance that does. 

This is positive because you have little control over what’s happening in the world but you can learn to direct your mind to apply an empowering meaning. 

Your self talk creates your version of the reality inside of you which affects the result you produce. 

Practising supportive self talk will help you create more powerful results while feeling confident long the way.

When you change the way you look at things, 

The thing you look at changes. 

#mindset #change #powerfulresults

Nathalie Rill

Certified Life Coach helping you to build up your self-trust and self-confidence to go after what you want.

https://lifebydesign.ch
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